-Games & the lovebug.

now, before i start, i NEED to say, THANK YOU.<3
hearing all of your response to my tweets and last blog made me so incredibly happy.
i hope my words have reached some of you, and i hope ive helped even a little (:
*the Team Jonas secret that was posted on facebook, legit made my night, week, month.
it means alot that someone cares so much (:
if any of you are apart of it and love me so much, feel free to make one, i love reading them (:



Anyway, more boy issues, i feel its needed (:
like i said, you cant fully love someone else and be in a good relationship if you dont love yourself.
if you dont love yourself, and who you are, you cant expect to love someone else, fully.

Anyway, games.
it happens with all douchebags basically.
now, im not saying every guy is like that (:
but, guys like to play games, with our minds, and hearts.
ive learned from past relationships that SOME guys are not in it for love, they're in it for other things.
things that shouldnt be manditory with love.
if a guy wants you JUST for hooking up, or he doesnt want people knowing hes "seeing" you, what kind of guy is that?
is THAT the guy you want to call yours?
one thats ashamed to be with you?

now, i know when you start getting feelings its HARD to just stop, and i totally understand.
but, you need to think of what you deserve in life.
and all girls deserve a guy that treats her well.
not one thats using her.

if a guy doesnt appreciate you, or respect you, then re-think why youre with him.

(:

now, for the lovebug part.

i know you girls like guys.
there are AMAZING guys out there, just look at my boyfriend (;
im telling you, the BEST relationships come with FRIENDSHIP.
dont change who you are t make him like you.
that all stems back to "if a guy truly loves you, he'll love you for who you are"
if you change yourself, thats not who you truly are.
thats changing yourself to become something youre not.

get to know each otherrrr.
become comfortable.
TEXTING is always good hahaa.
if you like a boy, dont be like pushy or clingy, just take time.

i know its hard to wait and wait, believe me, i lost hope too.
but if you think its truly worth it, stick around, dont easily give up hope.

if the guy knows you like him, and he tells you he doesnt like you back, maybe its a sign of something better coming along.
"when one door closes, another one opens"
keep that in mind as well(:

im sorry this is short, but im leaving to go somewhere super soon ;]

ILOVEYOUGUYS!
youre all amazing and beautiful.
never give up, just hold on (:
xoxo,
brittany.