im really, honestly, getting sick and tired of the over obsessive fans.
theyre giving the rest of us fans a bad rep.
does anyone ever take into consideration how the boys feel?
YES, they love their fans, but they're NORMAL guys.
what do you think they think when your screaming your head off at them?
screaming your head off, isnt a way to show them youre a true dedicated fan.
at concerts, scream bloody murder, (just not during albl (; ) i dont care.
but im tired of all us jonas fans getting labeled as obsessive maniacs.
i dont know about you, but i dont freak out when i see them.
do i have a loud voice? HELL YEAH, i have a loud voice.
but i scream when the times right.
not when theyre a foot away from me.
I KNOW, your excited.
I KNOW, its THE JONAS BROTHERS... asdfghjkl;!@$%&#.
but the REALITY is, that theyre 3 guys.
theyre 3 guys who once lived in a small house in new jersey.
theyre 3 VERY BLESSED boys, who are grateful for all they have.
they adore their fans.
but some obsessive fans cant grasp that theyre normal.
you have got to be kidding me if you dont think joe doesnt laugh or get amused by girls death shrieking his name.
its crazy.
the boys like cool collected fans, not people trying to STEAL THEIR STUFF.
like HONESTLY? WTF? thats rude disrespectful and TOTALLY wrong.
thats a one way ticket for the boys to loose all respect for you.
ive been a fan since '07, and im sick and tired of getting a bad rep.
everytime someone finds out im a jonas fan, they freak out, and assume im one of those crazy fans.
when in all reality, im NOT. i am far from a crazy fan.
and im sure some of you are too.
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the boys have changed my life, and have taken up a big part of it.
im a true fan, and ive never given up on them, like ive seen other fans do.
nor am i ashamed to like them.
i know people are mean, and theyll harp and harp on you for being a fan, but if you TRULY love them, youll stick around.
if people will go as low as to make fun of you for liking a band, what kind of person are they?
who you like as a musical artist shouldnt matter.
the boys have given me so much hope.
i couldn never give up on them, i need to thank them for what theyve done.
in no way can i just be ashamed of being a fan when i owe so much to them.
im so grateful brandon understands my love for them because honestly, i couldnt be in a relationship with a jonas hater.
they mean to much to me.
it really saddens me that some fans have hidden their love.
i understand if you wanna stop being a fan totally for your own reasons.
but if you are one and your hiding it, what kind of fan are you?
im sorry if ive offended anyone, these are just my feelings.
ill make an inspirational blog next, dont worry (:
stay beautiful
xoxo
brittany<3
Monday, October 26, 2009
Wednesday, October 21, 2009
-Games & the lovebug.
now, before i start, i NEED to say, THANK YOU.<3
hearing all of your response to my tweets and last blog made me so incredibly happy.
i hope my words have reached some of you, and i hope ive helped even a little (:
*the Team Jonas secret that was posted on facebook, legit made my night, week, month.
it means alot that someone cares so much (:
if any of you are apart of it and love me so much, feel free to make one, i love reading them (:
Anyway, more boy issues, i feel its needed (:
like i said, you cant fully love someone else and be in a good relationship if you dont love yourself.
if you dont love yourself, and who you are, you cant expect to love someone else, fully.
Anyway, games.
it happens with all douchebags basically.
now, im not saying every guy is like that (:
but, guys like to play games, with our minds, and hearts.
ive learned from past relationships that SOME guys are not in it for love, they're in it for other things.
things that shouldnt be manditory with love.
if a guy wants you JUST for hooking up, or he doesnt want people knowing hes "seeing" you, what kind of guy is that?
is THAT the guy you want to call yours?
one thats ashamed to be with you?
now, i know when you start getting feelings its HARD to just stop, and i totally understand.
but, you need to think of what you deserve in life.
and all girls deserve a guy that treats her well.
not one thats using her.
if a guy doesnt appreciate you, or respect you, then re-think why youre with him.
(:
now, for the lovebug part.
i know you girls like guys.
there are AMAZING guys out there, just look at my boyfriend (;
im telling you, the BEST relationships come with FRIENDSHIP.
dont change who you are t make him like you.
that all stems back to "if a guy truly loves you, he'll love you for who you are"
if you change yourself, thats not who you truly are.
thats changing yourself to become something youre not.
get to know each otherrrr.
become comfortable.
TEXTING is always good hahaa.
if you like a boy, dont be like pushy or clingy, just take time.
i know its hard to wait and wait, believe me, i lost hope too.
but if you think its truly worth it, stick around, dont easily give up hope.
if the guy knows you like him, and he tells you he doesnt like you back, maybe its a sign of something better coming along.
"when one door closes, another one opens"
keep that in mind as well(:
im sorry this is short, but im leaving to go somewhere super soon ;]
ILOVEYOUGUYS!
youre all amazing and beautiful.
never give up, just hold on (:
xoxo,
brittany.
hearing all of your response to my tweets and last blog made me so incredibly happy.
i hope my words have reached some of you, and i hope ive helped even a little (:
*the Team Jonas secret that was posted on facebook, legit made my night, week, month.
it means alot that someone cares so much (:
if any of you are apart of it and love me so much, feel free to make one, i love reading them (:
Anyway, more boy issues, i feel its needed (:
like i said, you cant fully love someone else and be in a good relationship if you dont love yourself.
if you dont love yourself, and who you are, you cant expect to love someone else, fully.
Anyway, games.
it happens with all douchebags basically.
now, im not saying every guy is like that (:
but, guys like to play games, with our minds, and hearts.
ive learned from past relationships that SOME guys are not in it for love, they're in it for other things.
things that shouldnt be manditory with love.
if a guy wants you JUST for hooking up, or he doesnt want people knowing hes "seeing" you, what kind of guy is that?
is THAT the guy you want to call yours?
one thats ashamed to be with you?
now, i know when you start getting feelings its HARD to just stop, and i totally understand.
but, you need to think of what you deserve in life.
and all girls deserve a guy that treats her well.
not one thats using her.
if a guy doesnt appreciate you, or respect you, then re-think why youre with him.
(:
now, for the lovebug part.
i know you girls like guys.
there are AMAZING guys out there, just look at my boyfriend (;
im telling you, the BEST relationships come with FRIENDSHIP.
dont change who you are t make him like you.
that all stems back to "if a guy truly loves you, he'll love you for who you are"
if you change yourself, thats not who you truly are.
thats changing yourself to become something youre not.
get to know each otherrrr.
become comfortable.
TEXTING is always good hahaa.
if you like a boy, dont be like pushy or clingy, just take time.
i know its hard to wait and wait, believe me, i lost hope too.
but if you think its truly worth it, stick around, dont easily give up hope.
if the guy knows you like him, and he tells you he doesnt like you back, maybe its a sign of something better coming along.
"when one door closes, another one opens"
keep that in mind as well(:
im sorry this is short, but im leaving to go somewhere super soon ;]
ILOVEYOUGUYS!
youre all amazing and beautiful.
never give up, just hold on (:
xoxo,
brittany.
Monday, October 19, 2009
-Hollywood (...and heartbreak)
**okay, so Hollywood is obviously a JB song but I added the heartbreak for a reason.
our life isn't like Hollywood.
one day, we're not going to wake up and have every little thing we want.
I think Hollywood sends out good and bad examples to teens like us.
good, because some rolemodels are humble and nice, like the boys.
but most Hollywood images are fake.
not everyones a skinny twig, I'm not, and I'm proud.
I've seen girls change themselves to become wanted or looked at as beautiful, like the girls in "Hollywood".
the fact is, no matter how hard we try, changing our outer appearance does no good.
each one of us were made for a reason.
to change yourself for anyone, a boy, a friend, even the boys is ridiculous.
the boys will love us alsong as we're TRUE fans.
the chances of us being with, now, joe or nick is slimmm.
anyone in your life should love you for the person you are.
and if they don't, you should take a moment to think about why they're still there.
if, for instance, a boy is telling you that you should change or he doesn't like you, DONT change who you are.
girls, you need to LOVE yourselves enough to realize that you're amazing.
everyones unique and different in they're own way.
we all need to be, or else we'd all be the same.
but changing who you are is NOT worth it.
if that guy is dumb enough to not see who you are, is he worth it?
if he doesn't like you for who you are, will the relationship work out?
that's how I was.
before brandon, I went out with a guy, on a date to the movies.
douche doesn't even BEGIN to describe him.
but he told me everything I wanted to hear.
but all he really cared about was hooking up.
the whole movie he had his hand on my boob, was slurping an icee, and insisted on showing me the blister on his thumb... by putting it in my face...
YEAH, let's just say I gave up after that.
but something good came from that.
that night I talked to brandon, after my date
and he made me feel so much better :]
(that WAS NOT the first time we met, I. knew him like 2 years before that)
but he still had a girlfriend. :|
that shortly ended there after, we liked each other and BAM here we are :)
ANYWAY.
all I'm saying is, DONT change yourself.
you'll date guys who aren't for you, they might pressure you, tell you things you want to hear, but only YOU know in your heart what's right for you.
**REMEMBER- sometimes the BEST relationships start out as friendship, that's what Happened with me and brandon, now look at us!(;
if you start off as friends, you become closer and get to know each other better.
believe me, it's worth it.
I'm not saying this because I have a guy like brandon.
I'm saying it because before I was just like some of you.
I lost hope on guys and myself.
but what JB taught me was to NEVER loose hope.
I didn't, and was blessed with brandon.
I truly believe everyone is destined for someone else.
wait, and I promise you'll find your "brandon" soon (;
alot of girls have low esteem, and sometimes I do too.
but everyones unique in their own way.
every girl is beautiful, in their own way.
don't change yourself.
find reasons why you love yourself.
look in the mirror everyday and say I love myself, or say something good about yourself.
it may help boost your self confidence.
I know some of you may think I'm crazy or stupid for saying all this.
but I can't stand it when girls change themselves for guys.
or stay depressed for days after a break up because they think it's their fault.
OH, and if a guy wants to keep your relationship a "secret" or on the DL, BAD IDEA.
if a guy truly likes you, he wouldn't care if people knew.
why should he be embarrassed?
he obviously doesn't see you for the person you TRULY are.
girls, remember you're beautiful, and worth it!
keep in mind what you deserve.
and keeeeep it bouncin', duhhh.(;
love you guys!
if you need me @reply me or Im me @ britxoxxxx
I'm always here<3
-Brittany!
our life isn't like Hollywood.
one day, we're not going to wake up and have every little thing we want.
I think Hollywood sends out good and bad examples to teens like us.
good, because some rolemodels are humble and nice, like the boys.
but most Hollywood images are fake.
not everyones a skinny twig, I'm not, and I'm proud.
I've seen girls change themselves to become wanted or looked at as beautiful, like the girls in "Hollywood".
the fact is, no matter how hard we try, changing our outer appearance does no good.
each one of us were made for a reason.
to change yourself for anyone, a boy, a friend, even the boys is ridiculous.
the boys will love us alsong as we're TRUE fans.
the chances of us being with, now, joe or nick is slimmm.
anyone in your life should love you for the person you are.
and if they don't, you should take a moment to think about why they're still there.
if, for instance, a boy is telling you that you should change or he doesn't like you, DONT change who you are.
girls, you need to LOVE yourselves enough to realize that you're amazing.
everyones unique and different in they're own way.
we all need to be, or else we'd all be the same.
but changing who you are is NOT worth it.
if that guy is dumb enough to not see who you are, is he worth it?
if he doesn't like you for who you are, will the relationship work out?
that's how I was.
before brandon, I went out with a guy, on a date to the movies.
douche doesn't even BEGIN to describe him.
but he told me everything I wanted to hear.
but all he really cared about was hooking up.
the whole movie he had his hand on my boob, was slurping an icee, and insisted on showing me the blister on his thumb... by putting it in my face...
YEAH, let's just say I gave up after that.
but something good came from that.
that night I talked to brandon, after my date
and he made me feel so much better :]
(that WAS NOT the first time we met, I. knew him like 2 years before that)
but he still had a girlfriend. :|
that shortly ended there after, we liked each other and BAM here we are :)
ANYWAY.
all I'm saying is, DONT change yourself.
you'll date guys who aren't for you, they might pressure you, tell you things you want to hear, but only YOU know in your heart what's right for you.
**REMEMBER- sometimes the BEST relationships start out as friendship, that's what Happened with me and brandon, now look at us!(;
if you start off as friends, you become closer and get to know each other better.
believe me, it's worth it.
I'm not saying this because I have a guy like brandon.
I'm saying it because before I was just like some of you.
I lost hope on guys and myself.
but what JB taught me was to NEVER loose hope.
I didn't, and was blessed with brandon.
I truly believe everyone is destined for someone else.
wait, and I promise you'll find your "brandon" soon (;
alot of girls have low esteem, and sometimes I do too.
but everyones unique in their own way.
every girl is beautiful, in their own way.
don't change yourself.
find reasons why you love yourself.
look in the mirror everyday and say I love myself, or say something good about yourself.
it may help boost your self confidence.
I know some of you may think I'm crazy or stupid for saying all this.
but I can't stand it when girls change themselves for guys.
or stay depressed for days after a break up because they think it's their fault.
OH, and if a guy wants to keep your relationship a "secret" or on the DL, BAD IDEA.
if a guy truly likes you, he wouldn't care if people knew.
why should he be embarrassed?
he obviously doesn't see you for the person you TRULY are.
girls, remember you're beautiful, and worth it!
keep in mind what you deserve.
and keeeeep it bouncin', duhhh.(;
love you guys!
if you need me @reply me or Im me @ britxoxxxx
I'm always here<3
-Brittany!
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