i dont understand why people feel the need to bring others down.
we've ALL either made fun of or have been rude to other people.
i have, im not going to sit here and act perfect.
but bringing others down is wrong.
whether it be weight, hair, makeup, clothes, self esteem issues, anything, you shouldnt bring someone else down.
ive realized now that even joking, is wrong, and im sorry to whoever in my past 15 years of living who i have hurt.
ANYWAY,
before you judge anyone, or make fun of them, look at their situation.
have you ever thought that you making fun of them only makes them feel worse?
bullying hurts.
ive been through it many times, especially with my surgeries.
people cant control things, and you shouldnt make fun of them or bring them down because of it.
if youre going to make fun of, or hurt someone else, it shows insecurity in you.
the fact that you have to go around making fun of others displays you as a mean and rude person.
if youre "defending yourself", does it make it okay for you to touch the looks matter of things?
even if the person calls you ugly first, you should know youre a BETTER person then that, and rise above it and ignore it.
but instead people think to go back with something even more harsh.
thats not going to solve anything.
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we were all made to be equal.
but somehow in life we dont end up being that.
we're all beautiful.
and i think the word "beautiful" has been labeled as something that its not.
to be beautiful, you dont have to have perfect hair, straight teeth, bright eyes, the perfect body, the expensive clothes.
THAT is NOT beautiful.
being beautiful has more to do with whats on the inside, with who you are as a person.
a beautiful person respects themselves, loves themselves, and doesnt bring others down.
now, if you dont respect or love yourself, that doesnt mean youre not "beautiful" but maybe you should think about why you think that.
just because you dont have all those things i listed up there ^ doesnt mean youre not beautiful.
those things are all material.
everyones beautiful in their own way, shape or size.
i think if everyone thought of themselves as beautiful, or didnt bring others down, the world would be a different place.
(:
dont bring others down because of the negativity you have with yourself either.
"you cant love someone until you love yourself"
not that youd love someone you make fun of? haha.
but you cant expect to be nice or love someone if you dont love yourself first.
everyones good enough, you all need to stop doubting yourselves.
youre all beautiful :] eeeveryone is.
Sunday, December 6, 2009
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