Every girl is beautiful in their own way.
Every girl has something unique and special about them.
Every girl is different.
Every girl is a gift.
i think a lot of people forget this.
there are days when i wake up, and i just feel like going to school in sweats, when i feel like throwing my hair up in a dirty bun, no makeup.
but can i do that? no.
i feel as though i need to look presentable, pretty.
i guess every girl does that.
but sometimes i wish we could all just have that day, where we could go out in public without a care in the world of what others think.
people loose sight as to what "beauty" really is.
beauty isnt what comes on the outside, its whats inside.
its not how straight or curly your hair is, its not designer clothes.
its who you are as a person thats beautiful.
everyone has so many different qualities, everyone has something to give.
always remember, you may be having a bad day, but somewhere, in this big world, a girl just like you, is having a bad day too.
we all have each other to lean on.
never underestimate your beauty, never forget that all of you, are amazing people.
you girls are beautiful, and have made me feel so blessed, i love talking to you girls everyday!
im sorry for this random post, but i just had to say it (:
xoxo,
brittany(:
Monday, September 21, 2009
Friday, September 4, 2009
-Before the Storm
So, before I start, I just want to say thank you to you guys<3
I've gotten qlot of feedback saying I'm inspiring & that you love my blog.
that means SO much to me! if any of you ever need any help, I'm always here (:
anyway, this blog is gonna be about ex's.
yes, those dreaded ex boyfriends.
I guess your ex will always mean something to you, depending on the situation.
with me, I could care less about my ex's.
they didn't treat me right, and they were douchebags.
but, in some cases it can be hard.
I'm sure some of you guys still have feelings towards your ex.
it's hard to pass him in the hall, to see him with someone else possibly.
my ex lives directly accross from me.
sucky, right? :p
when I go to get the mail, and he's playing basketball, or he's at his window on the computer, I'll get this cringing feeling in my stomach.
why? I really don't know.
probably because I wonder what couldve happened if he didn't change once we hit highschool.
if he stayed the same Tyler I knew since I was 4.
he was my first crush.
we'd have playdates, go swimming together, do all that cute kid stuff.
he was the first guy I got jealous over, when he was holding a girls hand in 5th grade xD
but once I hit middle school, I started liking other guys too.
Tyler was still in my heart though, he was my main crush for most of my life.
we went out for a bit in 8th grade.
until the day he broke up with me.
everyday we'd walk home together.
so right when we were making the turn to walk down our road, he paused and said these words:
"yeah, this whole 'going out' thing, it's not gonna work out, sorry"
then just kept walking home.
it felt like my heart had been ripped out, and stepped on, hundreds of times.
we stopped walking home together, for the whole year, and since then actually.
that day, two years, was the last day I talked to him.
I see him everyday.
we say nothing.
looking back, am I sad now?
no, no I'm not.
because he's turned into a guy I want nothing to do with.
first year of highschool he turned into a cocky conceited douchebag.
he's disrespectful, rude and has had about 5 girlfriends since me?
yeah, I want nothing to do with him now.
after he broke up with me, I realized what I deserved and that that happened for a reason.
because now, I'm happier than ever with brandon.
HE'S the kind of guy I needed in my life.
he's the EXACT opposite of Tyler, he cares, he loves me for me and he genuinely makes me happy<3
now, not all ex's are douchebags.
sometimes you can still stay friends with them, which is awesome.
do I still wonder what couldve happened with me and Tyler before the storm?
eh, sometimes. but I drift into reality and realized that we weren't meant for each other, that brandon is who I want to be with, who I need to be with.
girls, always remember that everything happens for a reason.
when one door closes, another will open.
and I know that from experience (:
I lost Tyler and got brandon(:
you need to remember what you deserve, don't settle for anything less.
COMMENT THIS-- leaving questions or issues your having with ex's (:
I'll answer it in my next blog (;
I love you guys!
xoxo,
Brittany.
"with every strike of lightning, comes a memory that lasts, and not a word is left unspoken, as the thunder starts to crash.
I've gotten qlot of feedback saying I'm inspiring & that you love my blog.
that means SO much to me! if any of you ever need any help, I'm always here (:
anyway, this blog is gonna be about ex's.
yes, those dreaded ex boyfriends.
I guess your ex will always mean something to you, depending on the situation.
with me, I could care less about my ex's.
they didn't treat me right, and they were douchebags.
but, in some cases it can be hard.
I'm sure some of you guys still have feelings towards your ex.
it's hard to pass him in the hall, to see him with someone else possibly.
my ex lives directly accross from me.
sucky, right? :p
when I go to get the mail, and he's playing basketball, or he's at his window on the computer, I'll get this cringing feeling in my stomach.
why? I really don't know.
probably because I wonder what couldve happened if he didn't change once we hit highschool.
if he stayed the same Tyler I knew since I was 4.
he was my first crush.
we'd have playdates, go swimming together, do all that cute kid stuff.
he was the first guy I got jealous over, when he was holding a girls hand in 5th grade xD
but once I hit middle school, I started liking other guys too.
Tyler was still in my heart though, he was my main crush for most of my life.
we went out for a bit in 8th grade.
until the day he broke up with me.
everyday we'd walk home together.
so right when we were making the turn to walk down our road, he paused and said these words:
"yeah, this whole 'going out' thing, it's not gonna work out, sorry"
then just kept walking home.
it felt like my heart had been ripped out, and stepped on, hundreds of times.
we stopped walking home together, for the whole year, and since then actually.
that day, two years, was the last day I talked to him.
I see him everyday.
we say nothing.
looking back, am I sad now?
no, no I'm not.
because he's turned into a guy I want nothing to do with.
first year of highschool he turned into a cocky conceited douchebag.
he's disrespectful, rude and has had about 5 girlfriends since me?
yeah, I want nothing to do with him now.
after he broke up with me, I realized what I deserved and that that happened for a reason.
because now, I'm happier than ever with brandon.
HE'S the kind of guy I needed in my life.
he's the EXACT opposite of Tyler, he cares, he loves me for me and he genuinely makes me happy<3
now, not all ex's are douchebags.
sometimes you can still stay friends with them, which is awesome.
do I still wonder what couldve happened with me and Tyler before the storm?
eh, sometimes. but I drift into reality and realized that we weren't meant for each other, that brandon is who I want to be with, who I need to be with.
girls, always remember that everything happens for a reason.
when one door closes, another will open.
and I know that from experience (:
I lost Tyler and got brandon(:
you need to remember what you deserve, don't settle for anything less.
COMMENT THIS-- leaving questions or issues your having with ex's (:
I'll answer it in my next blog (;
I love you guys!
xoxo,
Brittany.
"with every strike of lightning, comes a memory that lasts, and not a word is left unspoken, as the thunder starts to crash.
Wednesday, September 2, 2009
-Love is on it's way.
SO, alot of you have been asking me about guy issues.
we all have guys in our life- boyfriends, guy friends, crushes, ...joe nick && kevin (;
haha, "can't live with 'em can't live without 'em" ofcourse with the exception of those last 3^^^
ANYWAY, here are a few Q&A's:
Q: I like a guy, we're in all the same classes. my best friends going out with his best friend but I want to get to know him better, help?!
A: well, be yourself,
take it one step at a time, since your in some classes together, ask him a question like "do you know what we had for homework in math?"
haha, stuff like that. and since your best friends with his best friend.. go out together! like a group. it doesn't need to be a date. you could go bowling, or go to the movies (: just take things slow, and introduce yourself. (:
Q: my boyfriend never tells me I'm pretty, and he's always putting me down. what do I do?
A: don't be with someone who put you down. read my last blog (: everyones beautiful in their own way. you don't deserve someone who tells you any different, I'd tell him how you feel unappreciated and how his words hurt you.
Q: I think I'm in love with my best guy friend, what do I do?
A: sometimes the best relationships start off as best friends (: always remember that.
if you don't think he feels the same way, holding off on telling him might be good.
you have to do what you feel comfortable with.
if you think it would turn out good, i'd try telling him (:
Q: what's it like not going to school with your boyfriend? like the distance and stuff?
A: he's sleeping right now :| he starts tomorrow, I start Tuesday.
and it's okay, cause I love him, aaand I know I won't look at any guys in my school, it's douche central there :)
I love him and he loves me. yes, the distance does suck but I think if two people work out to make it work, it does.
and we have been. we're EXTREMELY close, and we understand eachother so much, the space between us doesn't mean a thing<3
anyway girls, I believe everyone has a soulmate.
everyone has someone they'll grow up with.
not everyone will be an old lady with 29 cats.. xD
love is on it's way for everyone.
don't ever loose hope.
middle school/ high schools hard with guys.
and sometimes, if guys pick on you, it's a sign of liking you, remember that ;)
basically all I'm saying is to keep your mind open, be true to yourself, and find someone who makes you happy.
there's only 2 more future mrs.jonas' out there...
we'll have to wait and see what happens (;
stay true to yourself && love who you are<3
xoxo,
Brittany.
"young hearts, I believe that we are not far, from becoming who we truely are- love is on it's way"
we all have guys in our life- boyfriends, guy friends, crushes, ...joe nick && kevin (;
haha, "can't live with 'em can't live without 'em" ofcourse with the exception of those last 3^^^
ANYWAY, here are a few Q&A's:
Q: I like a guy, we're in all the same classes. my best friends going out with his best friend but I want to get to know him better, help?!
A: well, be yourself,
take it one step at a time, since your in some classes together, ask him a question like "do you know what we had for homework in math?"
haha, stuff like that. and since your best friends with his best friend.. go out together! like a group. it doesn't need to be a date. you could go bowling, or go to the movies (: just take things slow, and introduce yourself. (:
Q: my boyfriend never tells me I'm pretty, and he's always putting me down. what do I do?
A: don't be with someone who put you down. read my last blog (: everyones beautiful in their own way. you don't deserve someone who tells you any different, I'd tell him how you feel unappreciated and how his words hurt you.
Q: I think I'm in love with my best guy friend, what do I do?
A: sometimes the best relationships start off as best friends (: always remember that.
if you don't think he feels the same way, holding off on telling him might be good.
you have to do what you feel comfortable with.
if you think it would turn out good, i'd try telling him (:
Q: what's it like not going to school with your boyfriend? like the distance and stuff?
A: he's sleeping right now :| he starts tomorrow, I start Tuesday.
and it's okay, cause I love him, aaand I know I won't look at any guys in my school, it's douche central there :)
I love him and he loves me. yes, the distance does suck but I think if two people work out to make it work, it does.
and we have been. we're EXTREMELY close, and we understand eachother so much, the space between us doesn't mean a thing<3
anyway girls, I believe everyone has a soulmate.
everyone has someone they'll grow up with.
not everyone will be an old lady with 29 cats.. xD
love is on it's way for everyone.
don't ever loose hope.
middle school/ high schools hard with guys.
and sometimes, if guys pick on you, it's a sign of liking you, remember that ;)
basically all I'm saying is to keep your mind open, be true to yourself, and find someone who makes you happy.
there's only 2 more future mrs.jonas' out there...
we'll have to wait and see what happens (;
stay true to yourself && love who you are<3
xoxo,
Brittany.
"young hearts, I believe that we are not far, from becoming who we truely are- love is on it's way"
Tuesday, September 1, 2009
-hold on.
so, summer 09's over, done, in the past.
schools starting for me next week.
I'm excited but anxious and nervous at the same time.
I'm going to be a sophmore, one week from today (:
anyway, I've been told that I'm good at giving advice.
so I asked some of my followers if they had any advice they needed answers too.
Q: I'm going to be a junior in Hign School, any advice?
A: be yourself! study, it will all ad up to your senior year!
be friendly, and meet new people (: don't be shy.
Q: I like a guy I can't have, what do I do?
A: I've been in this situation before :/ it's tough, but if he has a girlfriend, you need to respect that.
I found and realized that there's slot of other guys, some that come from unexpected places. always keep your eye out.
&& be open to new people. you never know, they may turn out better than you expected (:
Q: My family thinks I'm an over obsessed jonas fan, what should I do?
A: hm, well, I don't believe in obsession, I believe in dedication.
it really depends, they play a HUGE part in my life for my own personal reasons and that's why I think about and look up to them so much.
I've also found that other people can't TRUELY understand what they mean to you, only you truely can know why you love them so much.
I think that aslong as you love the boys for the RIGHT reasons and you truely want the best for them and have healthy thoughts about them, it's all good (:
Q: why does everyone think the jonas brothers are gods? they're regular guys.
A: yes they are, and sometimes I even loose site to that. they are just regular people.
but, you can't assume that EVERY jonas fan thinks they're gods. no one, not even joe nick or kevin, will ever be as powerful or almighty as God, obviously.
I don't think they're gods, but I definitely look up to them, for reasons you'd understand if you've read my past blogs.
I do know they're regular boys, but I do look up to them, not like a god, but they are a big part of my life.
Q: I want a boyfriend like yours! help?
A: lmao. well I can't exactly find you one, but I think the right guy will come around for everyone at one point or another.
I'm sure you'll find a boy who will stay on the phone with you, play you lovebug, and deal with your jonasness too ;D
Q: I think I'm kinda pretty but, popular girls make fun of me all the time, help?
A: -everyones beautiful in their own way.
no matter WHAT. your beautiful<3
beauty comes from within, not on your outer appearance.
don't EVER think you need to change yourself de anyone!
boys, friends and ESPECIALLY mean girls.
girls, especially teens, make fun of others because they're insecure about themselves.
don't let their hate bring you down<3
if you know youre beautiful inside and out, that's all that matters.
hold your head up high, and if you EVER need more help, I'm here (:
I didn't get MUCH advice this time- if you ever need help, reach me @ britxoxxxx
after reading through some advice and thinking about some of my own issues, hold on came in my head
it's such a powerful song, it's one of my favorites because it gave me hope.
girls, always remember, things could be going wrong in your life:
-BOYS!
-self image
-mean girls
-fitting in
-family problems
-love
-drama
so many things could be going wrong.
all you need to do, is take a step back from it all, and commit to yourself that you'll hold on.
lives a rollercoaster sometimes, it brings us to places we never thought we'd go.
but you just need to hold on, don't loose hope or faith.
always remember your good enough.
always remember your BEAUTIFUL.
everyone is beautiful different and unique in their own way.
don't let anyone bring you down!
don't live with regrets!
"when you love someone and they break your heart, don't give up, have faith, restart"
(:
find friends you love, people who are good, and never take less than what you deserve!
xoxo,
Brittany.
"Dont give up, stand till the end, cause there's more to life than just to live"
schools starting for me next week.
I'm excited but anxious and nervous at the same time.
I'm going to be a sophmore, one week from today (:
anyway, I've been told that I'm good at giving advice.
so I asked some of my followers if they had any advice they needed answers too.
Q: I'm going to be a junior in Hign School, any advice?
A: be yourself! study, it will all ad up to your senior year!
be friendly, and meet new people (: don't be shy.
Q: I like a guy I can't have, what do I do?
A: I've been in this situation before :/ it's tough, but if he has a girlfriend, you need to respect that.
I found and realized that there's slot of other guys, some that come from unexpected places. always keep your eye out.
&& be open to new people. you never know, they may turn out better than you expected (:
Q: My family thinks I'm an over obsessed jonas fan, what should I do?
A: hm, well, I don't believe in obsession, I believe in dedication.
it really depends, they play a HUGE part in my life for my own personal reasons and that's why I think about and look up to them so much.
I've also found that other people can't TRUELY understand what they mean to you, only you truely can know why you love them so much.
I think that aslong as you love the boys for the RIGHT reasons and you truely want the best for them and have healthy thoughts about them, it's all good (:
Q: why does everyone think the jonas brothers are gods? they're regular guys.
A: yes they are, and sometimes I even loose site to that. they are just regular people.
but, you can't assume that EVERY jonas fan thinks they're gods. no one, not even joe nick or kevin, will ever be as powerful or almighty as God, obviously.
I don't think they're gods, but I definitely look up to them, for reasons you'd understand if you've read my past blogs.
I do know they're regular boys, but I do look up to them, not like a god, but they are a big part of my life.
Q: I want a boyfriend like yours! help?
A: lmao. well I can't exactly find you one, but I think the right guy will come around for everyone at one point or another.
I'm sure you'll find a boy who will stay on the phone with you, play you lovebug, and deal with your jonasness too ;D
Q: I think I'm kinda pretty but, popular girls make fun of me all the time, help?
A: -everyones beautiful in their own way.
no matter WHAT. your beautiful<3
beauty comes from within, not on your outer appearance.
don't EVER think you need to change yourself de anyone!
boys, friends and ESPECIALLY mean girls.
girls, especially teens, make fun of others because they're insecure about themselves.
don't let their hate bring you down<3
if you know youre beautiful inside and out, that's all that matters.
hold your head up high, and if you EVER need more help, I'm here (:
I didn't get MUCH advice this time- if you ever need help, reach me @ britxoxxxx
after reading through some advice and thinking about some of my own issues, hold on came in my head
it's such a powerful song, it's one of my favorites because it gave me hope.
girls, always remember, things could be going wrong in your life:
-BOYS!
-self image
-mean girls
-fitting in
-family problems
-love
-drama
so many things could be going wrong.
all you need to do, is take a step back from it all, and commit to yourself that you'll hold on.
lives a rollercoaster sometimes, it brings us to places we never thought we'd go.
but you just need to hold on, don't loose hope or faith.
always remember your good enough.
always remember your BEAUTIFUL.
everyone is beautiful different and unique in their own way.
don't let anyone bring you down!
don't live with regrets!
"when you love someone and they break your heart, don't give up, have faith, restart"
(:
find friends you love, people who are good, and never take less than what you deserve!
xoxo,
Brittany.
"Dont give up, stand till the end, cause there's more to life than just to live"
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